The speaker that Sunday was in his requisite corporate attire -- dark blue suit, white shirt, "power" tie -- and was preaching on the topic of stewardship. We knew he had graduated from seminary and had been ordained as a minister in his twenties, but had subsequently gone to work in middle management at a blue chip company. We were hoping that his experiences in both ministry and business would help us unravel the mysteries of personal finance.
"The secret" he said "to good stewardship, which is really not a secret, is to spend less than you make." Finally, I thought, someone will explain to me the steps I need to follow to manage my income and expenses. "Although, I must admit. . ." he continued, ". . .that I've never quite figured out how to do that in my own life." He went on to tell us that we needed to give to the church "in faith, trusting that God will provide for you."
Now, this man meant well, and there was truth in his admonition to trust God for provision. Ultimately it is God who provides everything we have. But I have since come to regard his approach to money as "magical Christian thinking". . .somehow, by giving charitably, we are relieved of all other personal responsibility when it comes to managing money. Give, and trust God, and somehow the numbers will all work out. We are therefore exempt from making tough choices about our wants, needs and acquisitions.
Because God is more concerned with our character than our comfort, He calls us to make wise choices. . .which are not always easy choices. He has given us the freedom, and the responsibility, to choose industry over laziness. . .love over hatred. . .service over selfishness. . .and contentment over greed. We are free to choose His way, or our own. We are free to choose His way. . .or the way of our culture, which operates on the basis of unlimited consumption. He is always there to help us in the pursuit of godly choices, but He will not push us against our will. The choice is ultimately ours, and ours alone.
On a practical basis this means that, at some point, we have to do the math. As much as we might like God to magically provide everything we want, (and I am not exempt from sometimes wanting the magic,) we will never learn to spend less than we make unless we sit down with our check stubs and a calculator and create a financial plan. Sometimes we have to choose between high-speed Internet and health insurance, or between gourmet dinners and giving.
There are plenty of budgeting tools* available to use in crunching our personal numbers, but the trick is, we have to actually use them. I am not, by nature, a numbers-geek, nor do I gain any personal pleasure from creating spreadsheets. But I do desire to be obedient to the mission God has for my life, and I can't do that if I'm distracted by the storms of personal financial chaos. Neither can you.
When we make the decision to spend less than we make, we may not end up with all of the stuff we might want. There will always be an unlimited supply of stuff, and an unlimited supply of people wanting to sell us their stuff. But what we can end up with is freedom. We can gain freedom from financial stress. . .freedom from the phone calls of creditors and collectors. . .freedom to give. Ultimately, and most importantly, we can gain freedom from the financial burdens which inhibit us from finding, and following, God's mission for each of our lives.
*Check at www.goodsenseministry.com or www.daveramsey.com for budgeting resources.
--Susan Rodebush © 2009
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